am i strange to always close my eyes during sex?

[candyfluff]

i have no idea why i do it - i just never look - am i missing out do you think ?

I do this too. Also I'm v. quiet, bar the odd moan

How can you see what you are doing?

Is that you Colleen?

pantsmacabre.

It's probably best. No man's orgasm face is a picture. Can be offputting.

do you mean all the way through sex or just when you're having an orgasm?

yes all the way through ? i dont make much noise either unlike my sister whose neighbours tell me she s right screamer

When I am trying to find something in my handbag, I always shuts my eyes. For some reason it helps me to feel around better, like my fingers become more sensitive without distractions.

I suppose that could apply here too

I close my eyes too- I hate seeing DP enjoying himself

I do this. Not during foreplay of course but I can't stare into DH's eyes during as it is weird to just look at someone for that long IMO. I would get the giggles after a while. Plus I need to fantasise a bit personally ;)

No, you're not strange. What would be strange is if you kept them open, not even blinking, just staring in a maniacal, she-devil way.

I close mine too and when I orgasm it feels like my eyeballs are rolling backwards into my head!

Mine close automatically when I am close to orgasm. Unfortunately I am also a bit of a screamer - am going to have to explain that one to DCs in due course

whats an orgasm

Surely it depends on what you are actually doing?

I tend to close my eyes if I'm lying back and being attended to, my eyes are open when I'm attending to DH and a mixture when we are having actual intercourse.

I sometimes get the giggles, DH has a habit of sticking his tongue out when he's concentrating and that always makes me laugh, but then I get a spanking so it's all good.

We both like having sex in the pitch black, the sensate focus is intensified when everything is by touch alone.

i feel sea sick if i have my eyes open and thetre's lots of bobbin up and down

Ballpointpen

Sadly since becoming a parent, its eyes open, or at least one open to keep an eye on the door! : )