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Ok who elses dp/dh sulks when they don't get any ??

34 replies

nutcracker · 02/08/2005 22:16

Sex I mean ??

My dp sulks and sulks and sulks and it is really peeing me off.

He is always talking about sex, suggesting we have it and trying it on and if i say i'm not interested he goes off his head, which tbh puts me off even more.

OP posts:
AnotherHelen · 03/08/2005 09:19

Wow nutcracker your dp sounds exactlty the same as mine! my dp is ALWAYS sulking when he doesnt get any, and he too cant seperate affection and sex - any contact at all has to mean sex asap!! this behavior is supposed to turn me on??? - yeah right!

Kelly1978 · 03/08/2005 09:29

Yep. he reckons he isn't sulking but he goes all depressed and quiet. He has given up pestering me, since he realised that it puts me off even more. Huge sulks tho. I think all men do.

jenk1 · 03/08/2005 09:34

i cant stand grudge sex ie only doing it to stop him being in a mood-theres no point its not enjoyable, i only usually want it max 4 times a month anyway, i also hate that they cant seperate affection and sex

threeboys3 · 03/08/2005 09:52

Same problem. Dh will moan about whatever he's upset with, but 2 minutes later expects me to be up for it! He can't understand why I'm upset and not in the mood!I avoid affection in case of sex too. He's now started saying how unhappy he is with relationship- Should I be more willing? It's so hard though, after a long day with 3 kids. Its not like we don't do it, just not when he wants it. Really worried at the moment (see my other thread, long story!)

Charlee · 03/08/2005 09:54

mine does this all the time, he sulks and goes on and on then tries making me feel guilty with the 'oh i cant be that good if you dont want to' i just ignore him now i would never have sex unless i wanted to.

sweetkitty · 03/08/2005 09:55

I feel sorry for my DP I'm pregnant and have been feeling rotten for weeks, most evenings I'm on the sofa knackered feeling lousy so he doesn't even mention it. He was shocked when I mentioned it the other night mega brownie points for me .

Janbo25 · 03/08/2005 10:15

it seems all the men are the same lol, how often do they expect to have sex then?

HappyDaddy · 05/08/2005 13:38

Janbo, you didn't read my post then?
We had no sex for about a year when and after dw was pregnant. Yes, I missed it but so did she and I wouldn't dream of sulking or giving her grief over it.

threeboys3 · 06/08/2005 01:01

Wow,there are some understanding men out there!

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