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is it wierd that i dont miss sex?

38 replies

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:27

havent had any for over 6months for pretty obvious reasons. but i dont miss it. at all. i feel like it should feel wrong, but at the same i am really not bothered.

was gonna change my name for this but cant be bothered.

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jessicasmummy · 24/06/2005 17:29

im with ya misdee - since falling pg again, i dont care! This is from a sex-mad girlie!

I think i have had sex about 5 times in 6 months and i dont miss it in the slightest!!!

You're not weird or strange, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise!

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:31

just remembering all those post by a certain plant that says if u dont have sex you're weird.

tsk!!

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jessicasmummy · 24/06/2005 17:32

stupid cow! not wierd at all.... i prefer cuddles me!

starlover · 24/06/2005 17:32

hmm well then i am weird!
seem to have lost all y libido since having ds...
at least you 2 have an excuse!

lunachic · 24/06/2005 17:34

who has the time !

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:34

lol.

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compo · 24/06/2005 17:35

don't think it's wierd at all as I much prefer a bit of do-it-yourself, or don't you bother with that even? (you don't have to answer that btw)

jessicasmummy · 24/06/2005 17:35

PMSL! cuddles and sleep!!! Best way forward!

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:35

i'm just not interesdted in anything like that. to me its an extra lol.

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noddyholder · 24/06/2005 17:36

was in the same situation when on dialysis and even dp went off it I think it was the stress.The desire will come back when things settle down for you It is not everything

tamula · 24/06/2005 17:44

Misdee, I'm with ya, i'm not even remotely in the mood (ever) Dp's badgering doesnt help none either.

But I think my sex drive has waned due to feeling like a strecth marked, fatso with bad hair days every day...

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:46

even dh isnt bothered. but then oner of his meds is similar to a female hormone and may mean 'loss of sex drive and enlargement in breast tissue'

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starlover · 24/06/2005 17:47

misdee... he'll be able to b/f dd3 then!

Fio2 · 24/06/2005 17:48

a certain plant

fgs misdee stop worrying about crap!

lunachic · 24/06/2005 17:48

lol compo
i resorted to a little diy to bring dd labour on (right on time ) know someone who is pg and having a sweep im too to tell her the alternative

compo · 24/06/2005 17:49

lol lunachic - much more pleasurable than a sweep!!

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:49

lol starlover, i did ask him if he could last week.

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starlover · 24/06/2005 17:51

let me guess... he turned you down on that one?

misdee · 24/06/2005 17:52

he said dd3 would starve. plus she has teeth and she would no doubt bite him.

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starlover · 24/06/2005 17:53

oh well. perhaps she could just use him for a dummy!
men are such wusses!

stitch · 24/06/2005 18:03

well lets see misdee, yo have a little baby, you are breastfeeding. your dh is due to have a heart transplant, once he is well enough too...
i think you have to much stress n your live to want sex. so not surprising that you are not missing it.

katierocket · 24/06/2005 18:05

I think stitch sums it up perfectly! you must be so tired misdee, totally normally to not be bothered about sex

misdee · 24/06/2005 18:06

innit stitch. was just thinking aloud really. dh will be if eh finds out i posted this lol.

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Kelly1978 · 24/06/2005 18:08

I think the less you have sex the more u don't miss it. Bfeeding causes loss of sex drive too. I find it quite hard to make the effort atm.

stitch · 24/06/2005 18:09

kelly, your breastfeeding twins!

i cant be bothered to make the effort anymore either. isnt it sad...

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