i really really dont know what to do

[fostermum]

hi all, youve proberly read over the months that DH and i dont really see eye to eye about much,he has his moter bike and bike friends and work mates, i live a laid back hippie type life that involves my fostering and closeness with my kids, his step kids which he doesnt enjoy at all. we sleep in seperate rooms,cook our own food do our own washing, go out when we want to do what we want, im going to new zealand for 3 weeks in july,i will be seeing all my old friends from pre wedding days,i just dont know what to do about husband, he doesnt seem to mind our way of life,we never talk about it, but i feel like his mother!

thanks scrummymummy have mentioned that im moving to another country several times over the week end and he acting as if i havent said anything its soooo frustrating

but we have had a friend of mine staying from when i was a teenager and dh been on best behaviour laughing and joking with everyone nothing like when no ones here