When me and DP first got together he was a complete state. wore clothes that were scruffy, old fashioned, too big etc and he didn't really take care of himself properly. When he saw me getting put off he started to make more of an effort and bought new clothes, showered every night etc.
Sometimes however I feel he's not really changed at all. Last week I noticed his finger and toe nails were really long (longer than mine) and really horrible looking. He said he couldn't find the clippers
He lets his hair grow really scruffy and wears the same clothes day after day.
A few nights ago I noticed his dressing robe stunk of urine. I told him, he said he didn't understand how that had happened.
Then the next night, he was wearing it!! I asked if it had been washed and he said no, he couldn't smell it anymore though
I could, so I kept my distance from him. Later in the night he asked why I wasn't cuddling him on the sofa like normal...I said because his robe was mucky. He tutted and said "oh well, nothing I can do about that"
He complained that the new jeans were too long. I told him they're meant to touch your shoes!!! A few days later he went out and bought some half maste jeans and said he didn't realise they were too short but added "well, they'll have to do now"
I just find myself being put off by him all the time.
AIBU? I do tend to be a bit of a hygiene freak but I think its warranted in this situation?