Sex my partner and I have two young children under 4 we dont do the do very much

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is this common or should I address it as Im worried now.

Do you want to do it more? Does he?
There's a big difference between not doing it much, and never doing it.

we hardly do it as wse both are to tires he works long hours and when we are together we have the kids in our bed hardly romantic.

Your not alone!! Wondering if we will ever resume normality. Mind you, what is normality when you have children and always on the edge because your shattered!

I would say if you´re both OK with it, don´t stress.

Hold hands, have cuddles to show affection.

How much is not much?

We dwindled to once a month on occasions.

Then we found early mornings worked better for a while, for example.

twice a week on average for us, although can do days without it due to DHs shiftwork. He gets so tired and sometimes I get upset about it. never going to fall pg with second baby at this rate....

Hope things sort themselves out for you. How often do you DTD?