I KNOW, I KNOW ITS NOT FRIDAY BUT I HAVE A QUESTION REG...ORGASM !

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I really enjoy having sex with dh but I never orgasm, never ! I mean I know what it feels like as I have experienced it in the past with dh but not anymore...Is there something I'm doing wrong ? Is there something dh can do ? Is it up to dh to make me orgasm ??Please help !! I have namechanged as I know dh lurks sometimes ! Thank you !!!

Yes, agree missperfecttoes, I can usually orgasm at the drop of a hat but even i struggled when on ADs!

I'm sorry I should have been honest from the start, I have a very high libido, always had..and dh not so much...I have the feeling he is forcing himself to have sex with me so it is an anticlimax for me. He never iniate it, we can sometime stay month without doing it..in the past yes I did have orgasm, dont know if he forced himself or not...

My heart went out to you here. I very much doubt he forced himself but it does sound as though your libidos are a bit mismatched. But, very likley to be ADs causing physical problem right now.

Think a trip to GP would be a good place to start. Do you think you could do this?

If I get the feeling my man is not into it, then there is no way I can orgasm. This is just the way we women work. We need to be loved and feel secure (hence relaxed) to be sexually satisfied.

I don't know about ADs, but fantasy definitely helps. I was having a similar problem until I shut my eyes and started imagining terrible dirty things that I couldn't possibly tell you about (they did involve dp by the way!).

Hi ! You'll be pleased to know that dh sent me a very sexy message this afternoon saying that he is going to work on me tonight ..that is a good debut no ??

Very good! Hope it was good