dh wont snog me as apparantly my "mouth has funny smell" i think its an excuse

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well i do. i always floss/brush nightly and dont think i have bad breath or anything but last time we were ahem "intimate" whenever i went to kiss him he would sort of back off. after i asked what it was about and he said my mouth had a funny taste. i feel awful but think its some kind of avoidance thing or to put me down or something. i think as he never initiates sex and i have a complex about it already. he's always "tired" and when he agrees its like "lets get this over with then" and if i leave it to him to initiate weeks will pass without anything. am getting fed up. every time i try to talk about it i get not much response and that i'm always too desperate. i dont think twice a week is too desperate though ideally even thats a bit less for me. am very fed up. any advice?

not chez nous Laurie

nope, actually is no.1 in this house

oh dear, what does that say about me ?

lol pixinanny!

Pixi, I know I shouldn't laugh but have nearly scalded myself with hot tea at your rsponse!!

Well, it could be genuine. I also hate snogging dh as he has a beard , whilst finding him otherwise attractive.

Do you have any really, really good friends you could breathe on?

well dont know if its genuine am sure he used to snog me more. wil maybe try breathing on some people then but i think anyfucker is right its his problem. so come on what are the other top positions then? i need to know! also whats a normal frequency of shags per week? with having small children as well.

Can I just say that I hate the word 'snogging'?

As you were.

reverse cowgirl

Sorry moondog

It's true, but we're finding ways around it

YT - You've got to get him to experiment, maybe handcuff him, give him no option that way

Raven - I had a bright red chin from snogging my DP last week because of his beard

ah - there lies the problem i think .... he`s done that stupid man thing ... they switch you from sex-goddess lover to holyer-than -thou - up- on- a- pedastil- mother!.
small kids are a passion killer tbh! - it does get better when they get older.

Glad to hear it Pixi.

sorry but think it's an excuse.

Re funny taste - my exh used to drink lots pof milk (bleugh)but it didn't put me off.

since splitting have been with smoker and that didnt put me off - passion overrode it.

And nm has distinctive taste but again not really a prob.

Sorry

Love doggy btw - think it can be v erotic yet also quite base IYKWIM

Everytine i seee your name from now on Sin, i shall think

'Ah, the doggy one'

mabey you should change your name to "sincitydoggylover"

Yes, that will help a great deal.

How about a gimp mask as a barrier. Either of you or both if needs be

(i'm sure your breath doiesn't actually smell)

Just seen this not gonna name change tho!

I don't like snogging DH as he has bad breath. Smoker, doesn't drink enough water, I think he has gum disease. I do avoid it when he tries and we almost never kiss with tongues. He knows it. However, I am an active participant in our sex life and try not to make him feel bad about it. (we do a fair bit of doggy and spoons tho

So....positions. Missionary. Woman on top. Reverse cowgirl (woman on top facing his feet). Doggy. Spoons (like doggy but lying side by side). standing up. (tricky and not really worth it). Legs over the shoulders with him kneeling. (can't do since baby. Ouch)

Think that's our repertoire! I love the reverse CG.

kat standing up is good
knee trembler!

thanks for positions advice, any more? also what to do when u think he just doesnt fancy u in the same way? am getting upset and he wont talk about it properly. dont think i'm that repulsive.