I haven't seen him for nearly three months now. Strongly suspect he is a Narcissist (was defo abusive) and don't want him doing me any more damage. He sees DD for a couple of hours a week but has been texting me trying to get me to meet him.
Its clear that he's trying to worm his way back into my affections (which will NEVER happen) but I just found out that he was sending flirty texts to another woman (who wasnt interested, thankfully,) two years ago WHILE I WAS PREGNANT. Niiiice.
So far, so shit but also:
Has texted me saying "Fancy a shag?" while his wife was recovering from a miscarriage and not up for sex (or so he says anyway).
Asked me to be his mistress.
He is a performance poet and announced the birth of DD to the audience...before saying that he had never wanted kids. This is on Youtube so will be great for DD to see when she's older.
Added to all the other stuff I've posted about here, that he said "I hope you die" the night before I went into labour, the times he's verbally and physically and emotionally abused me...well I think he wins the prize.
He says he wants to see me because he misses me. Yeh, must be really difficult when you only have your partner to abuse and not your ex as well. Tosser.