HUGE sigh, just cleared out spare room for very best friends husband...

[sunburntats]

They are having the most awful time.

Think they are about to split so i have sorted out the spare room.
TBH i am expecting him any moment.

Its SO SO sad.

Any one been in this position?

Yep - we have, thankfully no children involved, but it was hard. We had our best friend for about 3 months whilst he sorted out somewhere to live etc.

ahhh, how did you cope? How did he cope? was it very stressful?

He coped with lots of tea from me and beer from DH. Tears, late nights and playstation.

He coped because he had to, she was a nutter.

We coped because we love him - he is our closest friend and guess what he is happily married now with a 14 month old and another on the way due in November.

Life throws you some shit but you deal with it.

indeed!
Im not looking forward to it all thats all.

im dreading it.

Dont dread it - just use the time to enjoy everyones company or leave DH to it and read a good book!!

Its so sad,
i dont know what to say to them both, i am useless.