Anyone come to the conclusion that sex is over rated

[Sarasue]

I have decided that I am not all that into sex. When I was younger I thought it was the best thing ever and couldn't get enough but I now wonder if I was just trying too hard with blokes and trying to keep them by being a sex godess. Now days I really can't be bothered with all the acrobatics and acting like a porn star, id rather go to sleep. I would rather do it myself in 5 mins than have to get hot and sweaty for half an hour and still not hit the spot. Anyone else feel this way???

yup.

I like affection. cuddles. kisses. feeling loved.

Sticking part of him into part of you - the act itself, without the emotional side - is meh.

Not having affection is hard though. And not being wanted is hard.

to be honest if you think sex is overrated you are probably with the wrong man

I used to think it was, but now that I can't have it I think t is fabulous lol

I certainly agree that I would rather sort my own orgasms out rather than faf around for hours and then not make it. But I would really, really miss intercourse with someone I love.

I think it's absolutely crucial to a loving relationship.