DP's contact with ex, would this piss you off?

[CrazyNites]

DP has been divorced for two years, seperated for 3.

His ex often texts him and asks if they can "chat", if which she goes on about her current partner and how awful he is etc.

She also goes down to DP's house to use his washing machine whenever she feels like it.

I'm supposed to be moving in there in a few weeks and am not happy. AIBU?

agree 2 threads are confusing

but as i said on other one

if dp wont take your feelings into consideration - do you really want to move in with him?

He hasn't moved on and nor has she. This will end in tears. I would not move in until their relationship was over.

WHY are you moving in? Is part of you wanting to piss on the territory, as it were?