Can anyone advise please. I have totally had it. I can't take it anymore. My OH is increasingly down on me - my life is a misery - I suspect we are a short way away from it turning physical. He thinks he is a great parter and dad. I feel like the housekeeper and hired shag. I am too bored with it all even to write at length on here suffice to say many of the histories I read on here seem similar to mine. The impetus to improve things has died on both sides. I have 2 small children and he says there is no way I can leave with them. Is there anything to stop me just leaving with the when he is out? Does he legally have a right to live with them? I am scared we won't be able to leave if he finds out.