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have you ever or would ever make a sex tape......

31 replies

mum2samandalex · 02/04/2009 23:56

dh wants to and i think it could be a laugh with a few drinks in toll although dont think id want to rewatch it tbh just wondering whether anyone else has

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BCNS · 03/04/2009 00:00

it will end in tears, it may at some point end up on the internet.. and if you did watch it back.. you'll be poking holes in the way you look.

on the other hand, your doing this with your husband, who should be trust worthy enough not to post it on said internet.. and you may like the way you look.

loads of people have done it.. it's reasonably normal tbh.

loulou35 · 03/04/2009 00:17

er,....yes with dh, was fine (funny even) ... no problem it kicked about for a couple of years - then i got divorced, he left, i cant find it- makes my skin creep am so worried i am out there somewhere!!!!!nothings come of it (that i know about)(ten years on now) so i guess its ok, but dont think i would do it again.....

lilacclaire · 03/04/2009 00:35

Nope, simply because I don't want to see my fat belly/bum/any body part jigglying around, I have the body of a porn star in my head and I don't want to shatter my illusion

solidgoldshaggingbunnies · 03/04/2009 00:44

Have been starkers on national television so not personally very worried, however...
If you are doing this with a longstanding partner who you trust then have an agreement that should you fall out, the tapes/files get destroyeed
If you are doing it with someone you are less utterly sure of, keep your face away from the camera
Finally, if you do end up with possibly-recognisable film of yourself on the internet, remember all these responses should you get any shit off anyone...
It wasn't you it was someone who looks like you
What were you doing watching it anyway?
Ooh, really, there's someone that looks a bit like me having sex with a playmobil pirate? What were you doing watching that?
And your problem is?

ThePlanningCommittee · 03/04/2009 00:55

It was all polaroids in my day

But seriously, you DON'T want nuddy pix of you appearing on the interwebs. Digital media makes the whole thing much more perilous imho.

Bumpety · 03/04/2009 10:00

Hell no!!!

Only way I'd ever do it would be if I was completely comfortable with strangers seeing it - coz you just never know what's going to happen!!

nickytwotimes · 03/04/2009 10:02

I wouldn't as I have no desire to and I would be too scared it ended up on t'interweb or something.
I don't think there is anything wrong with it, but maybe tape over it soon afterwards?

FigmentOfYourImagination · 03/04/2009 10:03

Yes I have

I destroyed the evidence when we split.

There's some stuff kicking about on this pc too but I'm not bothered tbh. I doubt anyone would be interested in watching me blow DH off, there's much more interesting stuff on the t'interweb. If it does get posted around the world, so what ? It's only sex between two consenting adults.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 03/04/2009 10:05

BTW, I destroyed the evience of ex and I because some of it was on the edge, although still consenting obviously. Plus, he was a vindictive tosser who prob would have emailed it to my boss or something equally embarrassing

Simplysally · 03/04/2009 10:07

No - I've done some stuff in my time but I draw the line at that for a couple of reasons.

One being I'm about 15 years too late to capture my body as I'd prefer it to be seen .

solidgoldshaggingbunnies · 03/04/2009 10:28

Figment: well said. It's not actually teh worst thing in the world, after all.

redsock · 03/04/2009 10:50

oooo solidgold, what were you on, was it that Gillian Mckeith thing where women got their kit off and we saw that normal women do have cellulite and saggy arses?

RealityIsMyOnlyChocolateEgg · 03/04/2009 10:55

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Disenchanted3 · 03/04/2009 10:56

I did when I was verrry young, with DH. No idea where it is though, was on the PC at his mums hpuse .

Have some sexy photos too, but i like them cause it was prebaby and i look nice

solidgoldshaggingbunnies · 03/04/2009 11:40

Redsock: my arse isn't saggy thank you . Well it wasn't then (in 1993). It was a Channel 4 yuckathon called the Naked Chat Show and it was very cold.

redsock · 04/04/2009 19:38

Solidgold lol
I remember that show.

You're a braver woman than me

notnowbernard · 04/04/2009 19:50

TIP OF THE DAY:

HIDE the evidence WELL

I had to stumble my way through an on-the-spot explanation to 5 yr old dd1 as to why there were photos of me with no clothes on

THANK THE LORD these were tame, simple nude shots... it could have been so much worse

Mumcentreplus · 04/04/2009 20:04

errr NO WAY!

HecAteTheEasterBunny · 04/04/2009 20:15

dear god no!

BitOfFunnyBunny · 04/04/2009 20:24

A few times...once on DP's new mega expensive video iPod, which promptly packed up and had to be sent to the techs

BitOfFunnyBunny · 04/04/2009 20:35

I made DP pick it up, obviously...

thelionmummy · 04/04/2009 21:16

we have done this, on the mobile phone mostly - you just delete it after you have "enjoyed" it a few times. Tis fun - go on!!!

hunnybun1981 · 04/04/2009 22:05

yes we did when we were on holiday once and i was so worried about someone finding it i destroyed it about a year later lol

Claire2009 · 04/04/2009 22:07

Yes, have done, a few times.
Still have the 'evidence'
X doesnt as it was put onto my laptop, not his

macdoodle · 05/04/2009 00:24

I did with XH - I guess was fun at the time but far more his idea than mine (no surprise there) - I rcently found the CD and destroyed it with great glee