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does size really matter?

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:02

im hoping to find out what the consensus of opinion is.
do men really want thin partners. or does a size eighteen girl really have the same chances? i always believed that inner beauty was the more important factor, but am revising my opinion due to some recent events. what do you all think?

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:43

thank you for your support. i feel a lot better now, thinking that it isnt just her size that is the problem.

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Branster · 20/04/2005 23:43

no, we deffinetly don't want complete twats for your sister!

Branster · 20/04/2005 23:44

send her on a cruise or some singles holiday? would she like that?

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:44

fate i s a horrible thing isnt it. and i know the desperation puts men off as well.
i hope your model friend finds happiness soon.

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crazyandconfused · 20/04/2005 23:44

Stitch, My dp is an ex Mr Scotland(bodybuilder).
Though I am a size 10(very lucky)I have never met any other bodybuilders interested in slimmer ladies! So if you are looking for love and want a guy to like you for who you are I definatly reccomend them! I think its because all of the other men that they compete with are so self centered that they just love to be around people who are more than 'a size' XXX

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:45

hmmm, thats an idea. but arent those supposed to be full of women looking for men? so they are outnumbered?

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Branster · 20/04/2005 23:46

i really feel terrible for saying this, but I don't see my model friend finding a suitable match. i cannot explain why, but it's a feeling I have.
she's got a little dog now though that's sure to put men off, isn't it?

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:46

lol crazy, ill have to tell her that!
find yourself someone with the body beautiful, so they can appreciate you not having it!

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Branster · 20/04/2005 23:47

hmm, you might have a point there stich. i didn't think of that!
teh bodybuilders sounds like an excellent idea!

crazyandconfused · 20/04/2005 23:47

Not really, only the competitors partners! the rest are usually gay men!!!!! So if you dont find a love match maybe a good friend who loves you for who you are?

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:49

whilst friends are wonderful, and a person cant have too many good friends, what is needed is someone to get a mortgage with and make babies with!iyswim!

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stitch · 20/04/2005 23:51

thanks for all your supposrt. am off to bed now as once again have mangaed to stay up till midnight despite best intentions

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Dior · 21/04/2005 20:28

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