Ahem.. lessons in 'slut speak', please!

[SheWillBeLoved]

How many of you freely talk 'dirty' with your partners?

It occurred to me the other day that besides the odd mumble of something filthy when we're doing the jigjig or he's trying it on, we don't talk about that sort of thing.

Neither of us have ever mentioned the lack of saucy texts to brighten up a work day, or the email containing details of what we're going to do when the other gets home etc... but I can't help feel like it's something that we should be doing now and again..?

Sex life is fine, no complaints there. Very affectionate with each other, it's sort of sickly actually. Currently 21 weeks pregnant with our first child, and I suppose I'm feeling the need to spice things up a bit before all we talk about nothing but shitty nappies and argue over whether it was a smile or wind.

The thought of sending him a text suggesting that I'm doing anything but sitting in work, prim and proper, sipping on a cup of tea, fills me with dread though

So how many of you find it easy to do that? Or do you not do it at all and just save it for the bedroom?

jumpingbeans - I think the note will turn up on this site

It's not a dodgy site by the way, it's dedicated to notes and photographs that people find in the street at random

www.foundmagazine.com/find/2076

If it doesn't come naturally then I'd steer clear.

I tried to become a slut once, I wanted to tell DP that he looked 'sexy' but was thinking 'foxy' so what I said was, ' God, you're soxy.'

I've never been good at it. Not offended in the slightest if my partner uses it (can be quite a turn on actually), but I absolutely cannot do it myself (and I am no prude).