I dumped my man for my xp and not sure if i did right

[Jellyfishhavefeelings]

The man i was seeing, it all started off as a bit of a joke, we got drunk had sex i thought that was it...

But it happened again and then he developed feelings for me, kept telling me he loved me and making promises he didnt keep

Its a long and complicated story but recently my xp became interested, he also treated me badly when we were together but i was getting so sick of my new man not making a commitment that i got back with my xp

Anyway, the guy i dumped keeps telling me he loves me and things will be different and hes given up loads for me etc etc...

What should i do?

I know your right

but t'other man owns the local pub, and i'm always in there so its hard for me to avoid him

[boggle]

Well stop going to this pub!. You make choices, you need to work out why you are choosing so poorly.

Make a new life for your own self on your own and without these men in it. What is so bad about being on your own anyway - you stated earlier you did not want to be on your own.

Work on your own self esteem and worth too - these men have also damaged your sense of self worth/esteem.

but other my xp is always coming in cafe that i work at, as he works for the builder across road, so its hard to avoid him aswell

i think the sensible thing to do would be to go on daytime tv and scream at each other about it.

The most sensible thing to do, is of course to declare your undying love for Jade Goody, and tell them you wont ever shag either of them again, unless you have a threesome you, your man and your ex. Add their wives and girlfriends for fun, too.

Sorted.

And i dont want to leave my job, my boss and his wife are lovley people, they let me lodge with them

They are a bit though, i'm sure she used to be a man

I live up norf although i dont see what that has to do wit price o' fish

Oh well done.

It's very incestuous your neighbourhood isn't it? You should try to branch out and find a bit of new.

Gawd tell me about it, it's like a bloody soap opera round were i live

Is the street the cafe is on terraced by any chance

this is important

There are some terreced houses on my street yes, with a pub at t'end

Well they know i've been in jail before so i dont think they would be bothered about that video, i were young, it were innocent