Sorry..got a one track mind today. So does anybody actually have an orgasm through just the "in and out bit?"!!!

[Fizzfiend]

I can't, but always wondered just how common this actually was. Sorry for my sex-obsessed posts today...it's that time of the month!

i can if the angle is right

groovy rach - me too (though my dh not yours!)

headfairy - i think many women fake it tbh.

Oh god, I'm so jealous...it's never happened to me and I'm pretty sexual. I read that 70% of the female population can't do it without external stimulation too. I'm feeling rather inadequate now...hope it's just that MNs are the super-sexy types!

A warm shower is much nicer

Yes, always. Although as I posted on another thread the sex isn't that often

It is position dependent to some extent but I just take the lead - men tend to orgasm whatever the position IME so don't complain

cushion under your bum and legs akimbo generally does it

Only if in the coital alignment position or similar....

Which is woman on top and a rocking/grinding type movement, can work on a bed or a chair (chair facing him or away).

I do, always (in the right position) - I actually really dislike oral sex or 'twiddling' I'm too sensitive & it is almost painful.

Sometimes.

I can orgasm just through having my nipples touched too.

And twice just from kissing!

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't depends on how filthy I feel.

whats an orgasm?

So do you think that men can tell if you fake it?

Only sometimes if I'm already very horny, ie gagging for it for days beforehand .

Fizz, Men have no idea IMHO.

another one here, softly softly Dh on top and off we go, sometimes within a minute! Dh is lying down upstairs, think will visit him now. Will blame hornyness on MN

i once told an ex of mine that i couldnt just orgasm through sex and he looked at me like i had horns growin outta my head. said he had never known a girl not to be able to! so after a while i started to fake it! he was none the wiser and after he left (we didnt live together) i would pull out my battery operated friend and finish myself off. needless to say, the relationship didnt last that long!!!!

i would like to beable to, but whilst having sex, i feel turned on, but not turned on like im gonna orgasm, if that makes sense!

That is the best thread title i have ever seen

usually. I think it would be awful not to.

I can if in the right postion.. so I tend to stick to those that work as I prefer it that way

Not always, depends on the position/angle. I can easily with simultaneous twiddling. They're all good though, however you get there!

Interesting that you say MNers are a sexy lot- I think that although that may be the case, any statistician would tell you that your thread title has merely attracted the filthy horn monsters less prudish types here

only after a brazilian

I find that too, and if a Peruvian or Ecuadorian has warmed me up first, so much the better

Um, guys, oral sex, or 'fiddling', is sex. It's all sex. Intercourse is just one kind of sex, it's not the only kind!

A quick google confirms - 70-80% of women need more direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Only a minority of women orgasm from intercourse alone without (ahem) a helping hand.