3 days before Christmas he told me....

[London7]

...that if it hadn't been for our baby, he would have kicked me out a long time ago
...that he is most happy as soon as he leaves the house even if it means he has to sleep in the car so that he doesn't have to come home to be around me
...that I have slept with men when I was pregnant with our baby and the reason why I found condom leaflet in his bag was because he tried to protect himself from me

This was supposed to be the first Christmas for us as a family - Merry Christmas to me

Are you from another country London7? If so, you may be able to find a support group in your area, you could let us know and we'll do some research.

I am sorry you're going through this, he sounds unbalanced tbh. The quicker you're out of there I feel, the better.

Good luck x

Glad you feel a bit calmer this morning, (have been dismembering a turkey so couldn't come on before, I gave it a few extra stabs for you)
I would contact womens aid as soon as ytou can do it without him listeneing and see what you can do with their help.

He sounds like a complete cock.You deserve better.
Best of luck x

sounds like HE has been cheating and is being horrible so you will kick him out and he can blame you