I used to have loads - life and soul of party, great at calling people etc. I was single then though - needed friends to do things with (also lived alone) and had more to give. Now knackered and have different priorities, as do they I am sure, and have I would say only three very good friends who I trust and can tell personal stuff to (other than my partner of course) and a handful of other friends I see for dinner and have fun with. Sometimes I wonder if my dramatically dwindling circle of friends is because I am not nice person, or if this is normal as you grow older and have family.
Wondered what you all think?