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I think this is crunch time for dp and I , we have packed dd away for a few days and have some time on our own to sort things out.

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twinsetandpearls · 02/11/2008 19:33

We have not had more than two hours on our own since we moved in August. I know that the next few days are going to be crucial in deciding if we stay together or not.

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FiveGoMadInDorset · 02/11/2008 21:33

OK,so tommorrow can you make a nice meal and a bottle of wine?

onepieceoflollipop · 02/11/2008 21:34

SO sorry to hear this twinset. Very best wishes in working it out.

LoveMyGirls · 02/11/2008 21:39

Maybe after an early night he'll be in a better mood tomorrow, I suggest you get an early -ish night too and maybe leave him a note saying how you hope you can spend some quality time togetehr tomorrow night and talk etc? (so he knows whats expected?)

findtheriver · 02/11/2008 21:59

Get yourself sorted for school tomorrow so at least you know you'll have a good day there. Agree about the note - just keep it simple and short, say that you hope he has a good day tomorrow and can you both have a nice meal tomorrow evening and a chance to just chat.

If he can't cope with that, then tbh it doesn't look hopeful.

Take care.

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