I'm not giving too many salacious details and am not trolling but...

[Traceless]

I just had one of the best, erm, nights of my life with someone I don't like a great amount.

I certainly don't love him and don't see myself ever loving him.

We aren't in a relationship and neither of us want one.

And like I said, despite the fact that his (seemingly very effective!) idea of foreplay is to make me a cup of tea and put a dvd of Family Guy on, despite the fact I don't like him very much and frequenty find myself thing "You are a wanker sometimes!", it really was shockingly good. It was a nice surprise.

Has this ever happened to anyone else or am I just weird?

It could have been that, NKF.

It was just s shock to realise that someone I don't like or admire can be so good at something and make me feel so good, I have never experienced that before. I don't really thin it's about my reaction to him, even, more that he really was good at it!

Traceless, does your usual MN name start with a C?

No, it doesn't, but I'm not going to say what it starts with in case idiot boy goes looking for me - there is a thread I started explaining the situ.

I know who you are thinking of though

LOL @ "hate fuck"!

Enjoy it but don't get too attached.

I love my partner, our sex life is great, it would be better if we weren't knackered and stressed but hey ho. I would NEVER be unfaithful or even think aobut it, but oh, for a fuck with a "friend" who happened to be very good at it - you know the sort, can't get clothes off quick enough, very "assertive" partner, very hurried but very intense and slow at the same time SEX! You just don't get that after 16 years