suspicious joint account debit

[GrinningGorilla]

I havent had a card or had any input into our joint account for two years. I had to get dp to get 12 months of statements for legal reasons - he was really funny about it and took ages. He then said he has disputed two debits which he did not take out. They were for friends re-united.
He was really stressed about it.
Does this site have a dating bit on it, or a live chat room on it?

OMG, so sorry GG, just read this thread. I reckon he will be bollock-less by tonight.

Why would someone pay for this?? I mean there are plenty of free sites for that sort of action.

If he had at any point in time flagged this up to the bank there would have been an investigation for (online) fraud. Sorry, but what a poor excuse.

Agree with Mutt: he better fesses up now before it gets really embarassing.

One thing GG, he is such a poor liar that at least you can now have a fair idea when he is being disingenuous...

I am sorry to hear about what he's done. I hope you are Ok x

Just to let you know this happened to me. Someone used my debit card details (no idea how they got them - bank seemed to think it was an on-line fraud scam) to join a dating site. Three payments were taken in total.

My bank were great about it but there were also other transactions which I hadn't made and they were onto it straight away.

They sent me some forms to sign and then refunded all the amounts.

Really hope this is a similar sort of scenario. My DH's face was a picture when he first saw the bank statement!