I HATE XP

[Mum2OliverJames]

HE HAS RUINED MY LIFE

Has left my son without a dad.
He has made me a single mum.
On benefits.
Will have to move because cant afford house.
Now i dont get a break - at all.
He isnt admitting to charges police are trying to charge him with.
Keeps invading my dreams.
Has left me with no friends.
Has left me living away from family.
Wont seek help for his anger.
I feel like he is still in control of me.

And top of this somehow i still love him
GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD!!!!

just wanted to be able to have a cry at someone but i dont have anyone to cry at

Anger manage4ment doesn't stop domestic violence, Mum2. Nothing does except getting rid of the arsehole who thinks he;s entitled to beat you.

That longing for the traditional setup passes too. I don't give it an awful lot of thought now. I just get on with things. Ihave my friends, most of them are married, but I'm used to being single. It's not something I questio or obsess over. And it certainly has its benefits!

It's that 'longing for a traditional set up' that keeps us in a completely shit relationship for far too long, imho, and has us bending over backwards to appease our selfish, bullying partners- when really they need a kick up the arse. I agree, NaughtiestGirl.

He doesn't deserve to be in a relationship with you, Mum2OJ. And I'm not saying that to boost your ego. If he can't be arsed to live with his own family, in your honest opinion, is he really fit for the job?