do you go to bed at the same time as your dh/dp?

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following on from thread about bedtimes

dh and I don't because he goes to bed really early as he's up early.

bil and sil both go early (8:30 !!!)

ggirl, thats the funniest thing I've read all day. I have tears rolling down my face.

At least it stops you grinding your teeth.

sweat like a p...i...g

I still grind

Depends what's in it for me..

And if your DH goes to bed early, doesn't it wake him up in a grump to find you latching on like that?

arf at latching on

We always go to bed at the same time, it gives us a chance to talk and have sex etc we watch tv in bed alot its just nice to be all cuddled up together. We sleep in each others arms and i wouldn't want it any other way.

OMG this is a bone of contention for DP and I.
For work I need to get up at 5:30-6am.
DP is a nightowl, he regularly plays games until 12 or 1 or 2.
I am a light sleeper so cant sleep much until he comes to bed.
Then within ten minutes of him sleeping and twitching Im lying awake. Oh dear

I go to bed earlier than DP - usually around 10-10.30 and he comes to bed whenever he's ready. Not great as we don't do the chatting/cuddling thing unless its a sunday morning. But I need more sleep than him and have been sleeping really badly lately.

Though he's the one who always says he's tired!

Don't have much sex either

Sorry, am rofling at all the 'we fall asleep in each others arms' arf!

Lol at gg.

I go to bed earlier, sometimes he comes and reads or laptops when I am drifting off to sleep, or sometimes we go to bed together early and take the piss out of the shopping channel products.

We do not touch during sleep. Unless it's night sex. Neither of us like to sleep touching.

we are not touchy feely sleepers either
perish the thought
I like my space

We used too, many moons ago pre-children. But now he usually goes about an hour or 2 earlier than me, although thats probably because I'm on here every night until the wee hours.

Sometimes, but more commonly he goes up first, and I stay up too late! I secretly love the feeling of having the place to myself- no TV on, no kids, so am reluctant to cut it short, even though I am a cantankerous old sow in the morning, while DH leaps out of bed the minute the alarm clock goes off (the man doesn't understand the wonder that is the SNOOZE button, sadly!)

Shift worker too makes it more special when he is here at bedtime though, always have spooned apart from the really hormonal months of my preg when I wanted to murder him for snoring!!
He finds it funny watching me try to turn over in bed to cuddle him now as I only have about two months of preg left!
Nothing nicer than waking up to feel big loving arms all around you and little baba wriggling away inside to start the day
Maybe if he worked less shifts I would have a less rosy glow about it though

oh yes that feeling of having the place to yourself-it's addictive
hence me posting this at this ungodly hour
must go to bed fgs

I know- I need to go to bed too, ut I know that when I creep in, bat-eared DH will wake up and tut loudly about the late hour! So then I think may as well be hung for a sheep... But no! Tomorrow is a schoolday, so need to be up and at 'em! Night all!

right me too
night night