after 8 years with XH, a couple of well non starters before and after him, but has to be said (and sorry for gloating but am excited - I know doesn't take much) about this bit!
new beau, ahem - well last night was together a t the same time with penetrative sex - (has been every time for me since we got together with penetration - never did with XH - was always manual before hand - but well now I KNOW what i've been missing out on all these years - and damn it was good!