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Stalker ex bf Chapter 3...........what happened last night!

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JumpingDizzy · 31/07/2008 11:45

As some of you know I've been getting stalked by my ex bf. Nothing nasty really except hanging round my church and sent one text saying 'can we have one last ? to remember you by' Not like him at all but think he was trying to get a reaction.
Anyway, I've been staying at new guy's last 2 nights(second time round for us but he's great). Came back yesterday and after getting boys to bed I settled down to watch a bit of tv. At 11pm I heard a bang on the window as if something had been thrown. I didn't look out but went upstairs and peeked out of the bedroom curtain at the side. Over the road there's a big park with trees around the edge. He was lurking in the trees looking at the house. I rang police and whilst waiting for them he came and threw something again. The police arrived straight away and I shouted out of the window where he was but they didn't get him.
They're taking it seriously as he's out on bail for this...was warned 3 times.

It was really creepy, just hope he stops soon I'm glad the boys were asleep.

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JumpingDizzy · 01/08/2008 10:39

nothing to report last night Think the rain kept him away?
I'm away now until Sunday so I can relax without him bothering me.

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fransmom · 01/08/2008 15:37

hi jd, hop eyou having a good weekend? did you manage to get sol appt before you went?(((((((((((((jd)))))))))

JumpingDizzy · 03/08/2008 21:54

hi fransmom, no I didn't get one yet but I'll ring tomorrow.
Latest thing is I got a handwritten long letter from him, found it when I got back tonight. Also money for my sons. Usual crap in letter, begging etc... promises....
Found out he's rang my mam and been round my brother's house bugging him and crying.

I'm waiting for the police at the moment re: the letter. He begged me not to tell them but he can go fxxx himself

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JumpingDizzy · 06/08/2008 13:35

Latest...got another 2 letters. He needed to tell me something important. In one of them he put his ex's phone number as she knows what he needed to tell me. I already have her number but it's in the phone the police have.
Anyway, turns out he's been so down because he knocked a woman over on a zebra crossing whilst texting did this a couple of months back. She broke her leg. He wants me to drop any charges as he's on bail for this.

I told his ex to pass on a message. Said couldn't give a xxxx about him, feel sorry for woman. Said my kids don't like him, dog hates him, want nothing more to do with him and no I won't drop charges am waiting for the police to come to pick up his sad letters.

He needs to grow up big time but I'm not holding my breath.

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JumpingDizzy · 06/08/2008 13:36

Sorry he's on bail for stalking me don't know what's happened about accident. He got a 1k fine for using his mobile whilst driving so think it could be for that? I'd have expected more to be honest?

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