been with DB 5 years, got 2yo DS. used to have sex (obviously!), never loads and i've never had a high sex drive, but since having the nipper i literally am not interested at all. i still find DB really attractive - i just have zero libido, I don't think about sex ever or want to do it ever. it's becoming an issue for me now, because when it's been a week or so i find myself getting anxious at the thought that i will have to do it at some point soon! i just don't get any pleasure from it, almost the opposite now.
is this normal for some people after having kids, or am i a dried up old prune before my time?
i've no idea how to change it. help.