Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Bloody stupid berk of a BF!!!

38 replies

WAStyedye · 06/07/2008 14:17

He is 4 years younger than me,im livid,as he pesters for sex constantly in bed,wont stop rubbing and stroking,squeeeeezing and patting etc,when im grimly drinking tea,(and im filthy tempered in the mornings),we have been seeing each other for a year,so he should know better.and makes cute remarks about "taking my blouse off later" etc.
Im seeing a consultant at the end of the month,as i appear to be Peri menopausal,even though im not yet 40.My breasts hurt constantly,but he acts sulky if i wear a bra etc in bed.I had sex with him to shut him up the other night,but it was like chucking fuel on the fire,he now thinks if he persists,he can seduce me eventually,even though im flinchy,with my back to him.I just wanted some peace,hes a big bloke,and he sleeps with an arm and leg on me if he can,and kisses me,and "at" me,all the time.He txts me "I love you" several times a day,and phones..he is doing my nut.
He cheerfully said this morning,when talking about going out to dinner with a load of mates he hasnt seen for ages.That when it was pointed out he had lost weight,he said it was healthy eating and loads and loads of sex!Im disgusted by that.

OP posts:
Littleblue · 06/07/2008 16:56

i think im cracking up actually..i live in a mobile home,and the floors falling out,apt metaphor,when i go in there,my head spins,im not well i dont think,kids back at half six

Littleblue · 06/07/2008 16:57

HE broke the floor,hes a fat bastard

Littleblue · 06/07/2008 16:58

and has he offered to fix it? NO,his mum owns his house,and he is above such trivia

dittany · 06/07/2008 16:59

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Littleblue · 06/07/2008 17:00

his side of the bed,he went through the floor

dittany · 06/07/2008 17:03

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

OverMyDeadBody · 06/07/2008 17:05

just leave him

MuthaHubbard · 06/07/2008 17:26

Can I just say my ds is into painting warhammer figures when he's not out on his skateboard......but he is 13.

Best get rid IMHO.

VictorianSqualor · 06/07/2008 17:31

Apart from the filming you thing I don't think eh sounds too bad tbh.
Nothing wrong with a bit of geekiness, but, and this is the crux of the ishoo, you don't think that so you need to split up.
Why be with someone you don't want to be with?

I'm expecting the whole 'he's pestering me for sex' thing would be different if you felt the same way, but as you don't it makes you feel sick? Therefore more and more annoying. End it before you really hate him.

SheikYerbouti · 06/07/2008 17:34

He sounds like a cockwart

Get rid.

He hs no redeeming features.

Being a good shag is not the basis of a good realationship.

AggiePanther · 06/07/2008 17:42

rofl @cockwart

Littleblue · 06/07/2008 17:55

ROFL generally,lol

Littleblue · 07/07/2008 14:12

I was a bit odd yesterday,madbitch..lol,hes telling me im tweaking his "baggage" by being depressed about my living arrangements.He wants us to get a HOUSE lol,yeah ,right...NOT.I wonder if he can hear ticking..

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread