As some of you might have read my dp went out saturday night, didnt contact me and turned up home at 4am. I locked him out and he ended up staying in a hotel. I had all the sorry txts from him and as a result he was meant to be going to AA tonight. He didnt go and said he is going Friday instead. He is drink dependant i believe and not an alcoholic. He drinks fast when he is out and can stay out all night. He drinks 5 nights out of 7 probably. Some nights just a few cans and others over 10 pints. He goes to my sisters with beer in a bag when no one else is drinking. His dad was an alcoholic, so is his brother ans uncle and cousins!Anyway i am not really speaking to me altho he txt me and said he would rather be dead than lose me and the kids. He hasnt drank since saturday. He just eats loads of sweets. I am not contacting him in the day like usual we nly talk about necessary things. He has just gobne for a drive, i think hes finding it tough. Cant bring myself to talk to him. Atmosphere is awful, i want to run away