We have a 3 year old and since her birth my husband has said several times that we are not compatible and he sees no future with me. Usually it happens in the heat of argument and today it has happened again. I think he is truly unhappy and there is a lot of resentment in our relationship. I suggested couples therapy but he refused. The truth is, I am terrified of staying single with my daughter. We are both living abroad with no support network nearby, it’s just the 3 of us. In addition, I have chronic health issues which are quite unpredictable and can leave me incapable of taking care of myself let alone the child for some weeks. It has happened quite a lot in the last 2 years. In that situation I really really need someone to stand in for me for my daughter. So I cannot imagine doing it alone. In addition, our daughter is extremely sensitive and has her own health issues, and she loves her dad. It breaks my heart to think that she would feel abandoned by her dad. I think it could be really damaging for her on top having a sick mother. I also do not imagine splitting her between us and not seeing her every day. I just don’t know how much time I have left because of my health and not seeing her every day means I would have even less time with her. On the other hand, I don’t know how to continue in this unhappy relationship. I really feel lost and stuck between a rock and a hard place.