We met with some of my BF's friends over the weekend, some who he hadn't seen in years. There was some teasing and joking after some drinks, but all good until someone referred to my BF's dating history and calling him a slut. He didn't seem to care to be fair and just shrugged and laughed it off, but I think he was a bit uncomfortable because I was there hearing it all.
Slept with his private tutor as a teenager, slept with at least one of his university lecturers, and one of them mentioned that they stopped introducing him to their colleagues because it would "always end up the same way", cheated on his long term girlfriend with a woman he met on a plane and started going out with her, etc etc.
I'm usually fine with people having a bit of a history (we all do), but it was a bit much I felt a bit grossed out. I might just need a kick up the bum because if someone criticised a woman like that I'd feel offended on her behalf but I can't really explain why I feel so judgy about him having sone lots of shit. I mean he was young, and it should be fine, but here I am wondering if he's really grown up and changed.