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Dating Apps Tips and Tricks for a Newbie!

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KeepCalmAndCarryOn717 · 02/11/2026 10:20

Hi All,

3 years later from the end of my 18 years marriage I feel ready to meet new people.

The dating world is now very different from what it used to be back then, and I’m going to venture myself with the dating apps.

I have never used them before, and don’t expect anything at this point apart from meeting and chatting to new people. I’m not seeking a relationship out of it at all, just trying to have some fun and put myself out there as I work from home full time and am very isolated from social life.

I downloaded inner circle and tinder so far, but haven’t created accounts yet. I’m 47, female.

Please hit me with your best tips and tricks, and best apps too.

TIA!

OP posts:
smallsilvercloud · 02/11/2026 13:30

I’d say, even if you’re looking for casual connections, still be careful and choosy who you let in, there are some very weird people out there and more so the ones that want a casual hook up. Meet them first and's not at each other’s houses, most will try and not date first because a date isn’t on their agenda.

Seaoftroubles · 02/11/2026 14:30

There's a long running dating thread on here,you might find it helpful to have a look at the Dating rules to help you navigate what can be a murky pool! Good luck!

KeepCalmAndCarryOn717 · 03/11/2026 10:37

thank you, ladies!! Do you happen to have a link for the thread @Seaoftroubles??

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Blueeyedmale · 03/11/2026 10:49

KeepCalmAndCarryOn717 · 03/11/2026 10:37

thank you, ladies!! Do you happen to have a link for the thread @Seaoftroubles??

Bumble is quite a good one,as men can only message if you message them first so it gives you a chance to look at their profile without any pressure to respond as I imagine it can be quite daunting having hundreds of messages at once and sadly that does happen on apps like tinder and Badoo so I would absolutely recommend bumble,they even have a freind section as well.

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