Should I help ?

[Ejs890011]

So my ex husband and I are separated. We sold the house, he is living there. Should I offer to help clean out the house ?

basically he keeps asking me if
“ i want to give our marriage another go and I say
“no” or don’t respond so his response is
“don’t even talk or look at me when I pick up our son. “

should I help clean out the house when he is at work should I mention it?

No - leave him to it

Could you agree to just clean certain rooms on days he’s not there?

If you worry about yr local reputation when the buyer talks about the state it’s been left in, you might want to help out?

Do you want anything thats in the house, have you left behind your own stuff?

Why would you offer to clean HIS house?

Well it’s our house there is nothing there I want I got everything. But I know the shed and downstairs is a tip. I just didn’t want the new owners to see a horrible new house

usually the person who is living in the house is the one who is responsible for cleaning it, whether they are selling it or not.

Absolutely not.
Stay completely out of it.
He told you what he wanted, no contact.
Respect that, and stay away.

It would only cause unnecessary grief and strife.
Good luck.

I’d try and negotiate with him to split the cost and get a company in to do an ‘end of tenancy’ type clean up.
I just couldn’t leave a house in a state for the new owner i’m afraid.