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Should l text again

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Sezaro · Yesterday 16:27

Hi ,me and my sister had a few words 2 weeks ago ,day before her birthday..we both said things the other disagreed on.l was visiting her at her home.when l left l was fine ,said see you later,txt happy birthday next day,no response,and heard nothing since, should l txt again ? Advice appreciated.

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TheLightSideOfTheMoon · Yesterday 16:29

I personally wouldn’t bother.

TFImBackIn · Yesterday 16:29

It depends what the few words were about and whether anyone was particularly in the wrong. She's clearly sulking or feels she's in right.

Gettoachiro · Yesterday 16:32

Sezaro · Yesterday 16:27

Hi ,me and my sister had a few words 2 weeks ago ,day before her birthday..we both said things the other disagreed on.l was visiting her at her home.when l left l was fine ,said see you later,txt happy birthday next day,no response,and heard nothing since, should l txt again ? Advice appreciated.

I'd go and visit if you are close. No point in texting if she already hasn't responded to one.

Sezaro · Yesterday 16:35

We haven't seen each other for a year just weekly calls,so l asked if ld upset her she said no but she said its my fault l don't arrange things to do.my reply ,it takes 2 and lm not taking full responsibility. But she went onto other things ,l wasn't looking for blame just to go see her and make sure all was OK but it backfired on me l felt.

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