my ex finished things incredibly suddenly back in April. It completely blindsided me and it was incredibly traumatic, I really struggled to come to terms with it and at times genuinely just didn’t want to be here anymore. I heard nothing from him and managed to stay strong and not get in touch with him at all. Fast forward to last month and he starts messaging me out the blue. He is telling me he is seeing someone else. But then keeps telling me home he fancies the pants off me, misses me and asks me to send pictures to him. He also asked if I ‘wanted to f**k’ and asked several times if I would go to his place. I told him in no uncertain terms I am not interested. He has a new gf and it is incredible inappropriate of him to be messaging me and saying what he’s saying. He didn’t seem bothered by this. When I was with him I thought he was the one, I thought he was the kindest most genuine man I’d ever met. How can you possibly get someone so wrong? I am gutted, but I guess this is his true colours