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Still choosing you

21 replies

Dariagilkauser · 16/10/2026 09:36

A real relationship is not about never fighting, it's about never giving up on each other. I found my home in you. ❤️

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vodkaredbullgirl · 16/10/2026 09:39

Good for you

Ohhelpwhatnow · 16/10/2026 09:40

Why are you writing a private message on Mumsnet OP?

wheredidtheteago · 16/10/2026 09:41

Your relationship with Mumsnet? That’s quite gooey for 9am 😋

Wishimaywishimight · 16/10/2026 09:52

You "found your home" in me? Are you the black cat that turns up at my patio door every morning? If so, you live in the corner house - go home!!

Medicalgrademusic · 16/10/2026 09:54

Maybe the op is a really persistent tape worm.

Youlostyourlemons · 16/10/2026 14:11

Medicalgrademusic · 16/10/2026 09:54

Maybe the op is a really persistent tape worm.

Creasing 😂

PoppieCock · 16/10/2026 14:14

Is it me or is MN literally getting weirder by the day? 👀🤣

Youlostyourlemons · 16/10/2026 14:17

I am definitely starting to feel more and more normal on here recently anyway which considering I have Audhd and a few other things is no mean feat!

BarbaraUsher · 16/10/2026 14:19

It very kind of you to say so OP. But I don’t think we’ve met.

DoloresDelEriba · 16/10/2026 14:21

Youlostyourlemons · 16/10/2026 14:17

I am definitely starting to feel more and more normal on here recently anyway which considering I have Audhd and a few other things is no mean feat!

Me too. This place is bonkers sometimes!

Youlostyourlemons · 16/10/2026 14:31

Reminds me of a Britains got talent entry or one of them
'Some people think Im bonkers, but I just think I'm free-
Im just living my life the way I want to be'

Or some such nonsense.

JoyousWriter · 16/10/2026 14:33

I think you're mistaking me for someone else.

JoleneJoleneJoleneJoleneJolene · 16/10/2026 14:36

Youlostyourlemons · 16/10/2026 14:31

Reminds me of a Britains got talent entry or one of them
'Some people think Im bonkers, but I just think I'm free-
Im just living my life the way I want to be'

Or some such nonsense.

Are you comparing the OP to Dizzee Rascal?

Thatsthebottomline · 16/10/2026 14:44

I think I've just been sick in my mouth.

JoleneJoleneJoleneJoleneJolene · 16/10/2026 14:52

On a serious note I hate bullshit 'profound' stuff like this that normalises fighting in relationships.
If youre fighting there's a fair chance you haven't found your home

Medicalgrademusic · 16/10/2026 14:56

I agree. The idea of a 'real' relationship meaning you 'never' give up on each other has the potential to be really toxic and manipulative. You absolutely should give up on someone if the relationship isn't right or their behaviour is poor.

66babe · 16/10/2026 15:00

At least buy me a drink first

MilicentBulstrode · 16/10/2026 15:18

I think we should keep this casual and see other people. You’re a little bit too intense for me.

IsThePopeCatholic · 16/10/2026 15:25

Aaah! Bless!

nolovelost · 16/10/2026 15:25

Must be a huge person.

Thatsthebottomline · 16/10/2026 15:26

MilicentBulstrode · 16/10/2026 15:18

I think we should keep this casual and see other people. You’re a little bit too intense for me.

I agree

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