My daughter has a new boyfriend who has left 2 young children.It is clear she would rather be with him than her own children and has started lying to us and asking her children to lie to us .She told them they were all going on holiday but went with the boyfriend and left them behind .One child had an important concert that she didn't show up for,but stay8with the new man .I hate having to be involved but love my granddaughters,and worry what happens when he leaves her