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Ex has heightened abuse now in court.

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HelenT2345 · 10/10/2026 17:41

Did anyone else experience this?

My abusive(everything but physical and sexual) ex has taken me to court for child contact and since this his abuse has become worse in every aspect! False reports, false concerns etc, wow I thought it was bad before! (yet stated no concerns at the start on form)
I'm not worried as I can evidence all that's he's said and he's been shut down so far, not by the court but his reports to other services. But it does worry me how low he's going to go!

Did they get found out through the process? Looking for some hope!

OP posts:
Gettingbysomehow · 10/10/2026 17:42

Mine didnt he lost all contact.

HelenT2345 · 10/10/2026 17:44

Thats good to know!

OP posts:
66babe · 10/10/2026 17:56

Yes let him carry on
Don’t react , remain dignified and silent
Record and save absolutely everything he does as evidence of what a deceitful lying toad he is
They will see him for what he is

MissMoneyFairy · 10/10/2026 17:59

Let him dig his own grave, keep all evidence and don't respond directly to him.

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