Birthday today - had a lovely morning with DC - breakfast in bed, lovely handmade card etc. Dc was spending later part of the day with ex husband as that is our schedule. Ex picked child up in the late morning as normal. Then texted to say can child (and him) leave presents round late afternoon. I replied saying there was no need as we had already had a lovely birthday morning and I was happy. Backstory - ex was horrendously unfaithful in marriage and it has taken me to now to even begin to enjoy my birthdays. I don’t want to have him on my doorstep twice in one day. I will see my child again later this evening or at the latest, tomorrow morning. Now I feel awful though that my child may feel put out.