Please someone talk some sense into me… I’m due on and alone tonight and all in my feelings as the children are with their dad who keeps trying to reconcile the relationship. I want nothing more than my family to be together and my children to have both parents at home, we get on well on the surface and have spent time together with the children and with mutual friends which is all very positive. However … this man repeatedly cheated on me and then denied it every time until I was physically able to provide evidence that I knew about this, and even then would deny or minimise what had happened. I KNOW I cannot resume this relationship because I cannot trust him but we are 18 months post breakup and it still feels as hard as it did on the first day. Any advice to get me out of my head and remember that this was the right decision, hold firm as it will never work in the long run, and be even messier for the children. Once a cheater always a cheater and all that?!!