How do I walk away from an 8 year relationship where we have 3 children together recently a new addition. I’ve been having thoughts of this recently but I just don’t know how to actually leave.. I’ve not long had a baby and been parenting all by myself for my 3 children. Lately he’s been mega distant hiding his phone using WhatsApp more and earlier today he was logged in on the computer and I seen he has an account for a website locanto? He’s posted an add with this message underneath “29 travelling up to … for work, hmu and I'II send my number for meet. If you wanna know anything just ask away I'm also going to … driving truck” wtf and then posted a picture of himself connected to the dating part of that site?
he’s all of a sudden wanting privacy in his life and said he doesn’t have to share every little detail which to me is a tell tale that he’s up to something. Doesn’t want to come places with me and the kids either. He’d rather just sit on his phone and scroll through social media and secretly chat to other “females” i’m honestly really stuck on what to do. It’s just a constant battle of begging for attention which I know I shouldn’t be doing if he can’t give me attention off his own back then I shouldn’t have to beg someone. I know that.
I think what truly hurts the most is we have a son together and I don’t want him growing up to be anything like his dad. We have two daughters and I hope to God he realises how much damage this is doing for me god for bid that ever happens to my daughter’s. I know at the end of the day I’m an idiot for staying. I just find it really hard to walk away from the only real relationship I’ve known if you can even call this a relationship. If anyone has been through a similar situation of being betrayed and constantly hurt by the person who claims to love you then please give me some advice on how the hell I get myself out.