Not Surprised, But Disappointed…

[RubyToDosDay]

Found out BF of six years is an OnlyFans user. He has perpetually complained about having no money to take me out on dates, do nice things for my birthday, contribute to family holiday costs, etc… and now I know why

Yeah that is pretty shit to discover.

What are you going to do with the relationship now that you have found this our?

He spends his money on sex workers. That's a horrible discovery OP. I take it the relationship is over?

I’d be more than disappointed. I’d be disgusted and end it. Particularly if he is spending money on OF and can’t spend it on your relationship, birthdays etc

Knowledge is power. Use this information to take control of your life and relationship.

Remember, he has prioritised his “relationship” ie time/money with sex workers over you. If you don’t end this now then you are showing him how little you value yourself and this will never get better.