I am out of a relationship of two years. M broken up with by F. Two months after break up. She’s made it clear she loves me and cares about me, but the way I treated her within the relationship is unignorable and she will not go to counseling and has said it is over. She went back and forth many times but this time I need to save myself and move on. Because the last two months were brutal. I still have hope, but I need to let it go and move on.
How do I best do this? I need to come to terms with the fact I can’t hope for this relationship, grieve the loss of two years with someone I thought I’d marry, take accountability and not blame only myself, and finally move on and forget about her healthily. should I have hope?