Hi. I am looking for some advice please as I am so confused. My Husband and I have a good sex life, active 2-3 times min per week. He is is usually the one that starts it and I am always happy to have it. He is very loving, always kissing and cuddling and canoodling with me. This is where I become confused...he had 10 days off work/at home and he barely came near me, not for kisses, cuddles, canoodling or sex! He has been back to work for 4 days and back to his loving, sexual self. I could understand if it was the other way around due to workplace stress etc. We have a happy home environment he loves being at home.
I have racked my brains...I have thought is there something with someone else at work, but our son works with him and commutes with him so there is no way it is that. Could there be a desire for someone at work hence being horny when home?
I have thought when he was off work were the late nights downstairs and late lie ins upstairs (alone) because he was "seeing to himself" with p*orn, so not needing his needs met. If this is the case then it makes me think he uses sex/me as a second option after masturbating/porn. When at work he is up early so does not stay downstairs alone late, or have lie ins so wont have the chance of masturbating/porn.
If this was a long term thing I could consider other factors but surely things cant just change that quick over 14 days. Has anyone had similar, got any advice or thoughts? I have no one else to talk to. Thank you x