Showed my DD a picture of a girl in her school and asked if it was a girl named B, she said yes so I showed my OH and told him that’s the girl who threatened to break your daughter’s knuckles (relevant as he used to be friends with this girls dad). He told me to “shut the fuck up”
I go into the lounge and sit down as he’s being horrible to me lately (he shut the car door on me twice earlier, I was stood there holding back tears - not because it hurt as it wasn’t that hard was more emotional) my girls also came into the lounge. He goes “fuck this shit” and starts shutting all the windows. Storms past the lounge and says “fuck the lot of you!” Followed by “don’t go using my card anymore, fund your own fucking life”
He works and makes good money, I have one of his bank cards that is used only for food shopping and occasionally fuel or a takeaway if he asks me to collect one. I work a couple of small jobs and do everything for the kids.
Day before yesterday we’d had a vague conversation about me losing weight and he kept insisting that diet was more important than exercise and I kept repeating to him that I want to gain some fitness back too. He snapped and said if someone else had told me I’d listen. He ends up telling me I’m childish and not to speak to him, so I haven’t been really. He will now and again make low key comments about my weight such as “you need to lose weight”, “you need to do some exercise”, “you need to stop eating as much” etc. Before he snapped at me he said “you can get back to the girl I met” as in my size, I was a size 8 FFS 🤦♀️ That’s not happening haha! He seems to have this idea that overweight women are just disgusting and not as worthy.
Don’t even think I’m asking anything specifically, using MN as my surrogate friend 🤦♀️