Separated with a toddler and worried about managing two mortgages

[Ejs890011]

Right so husband and I are separated. I don’t know how I am going to afford 2 mortgages and everything on my own with my 1 year old son. Also called our mortgages companies they won’t give us a mortgage holiday or reduce any payments what do I do? I feel like I have to let him move back in so I can afford things

Why have you got 2 mortgages?

What @QuirkyHorsesaid???

We had to get a 2nd mortgage against are house to pay for ivf after his family member went back on their word for helping us pay for it

He'll have to keep contributing until you divorce and sell the house. Then you'll both have to buy or rent smaller places you can afford.

Well at the moment he doesn’t want to seek the house as he keeps saying that he can back to his home I don’t know what I am doing this whole thing is making me so upset I don’t what to do anymore

What is he paying at the moment?

Before we separated he paid for the mortgage I paid everything else