Girls, I met someone at dance (bachata/salsa) and we began a relationship. After 6 weeks he blindsided me telling me he doesn't want to break up but he feels he has no choice as he is currently in therapy for severe childhood trauma and is feeling too triggered by his feelings and the relationship in general to continue.
I usually went to dance a few times a month on the weekends, and he did too but he also did the weekday classes.
My son is with his dad for a whole week, and I want to go out dancing after work because I simply can and I enjoy it so much.
Im not sure whether to go though as he is more than likely to be there. We only broke up 2 weeks ago. We will likely have to partner up in the rotations. I dont want him thinking Im seeking his attention by going to weekday dance. I dont want him to feel I am invading his personal hobby where he goes to relax.
I am nervous myself about seeing him as Im feeling better about the breakup after crying the first week, and dont know how seeing him may affect me.
What should I do? Should I go?
I just love dancing and want to go and enjoy myself and learn.
I tried to find other places to go, but most of them are in central london and I dont want to venture that far on a weekday.
If I do go, how do I ha dle.communicating with him?
It didnt end messy, but it did end sad and with my holding him firmly accountable.