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Hormones 😤

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crazypapya18 · 19/08/2026 20:09

Is anyone else hot & cold with their husband?

depending where I am on my cycle, I either love him, can’t get enough affection, or intimacy etc or I snap the face off him, his tone annoys me and I don’t want any affection or intimacy.

every time I get to the point in my cycle where I’m tired, in pain, irritable my husband will take my moods personally and we have massive arguments. He’s now saying he can’t live with the hot & cold anymore. I genuinely don’t mean it, it just comes and goes with how I’m feeling. I don’t treat him badly whatsoever I’m the same with the kids, less patience & irritable.

now worried my moods are going to ruin us.

OP posts:
MissBattleaxe · 19/08/2026 20:11

Ask your GP about Fluoxetine. It evened my moods out so well, I never want to come o0ff it. It made a huge difference within 6 weeks, so give it a chance.

Katiescroll · 19/08/2026 20:25

Are you peri, op? x

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 19/08/2026 20:44

Yes! I’ve just spent an hour talking to my counsellor about this and how things in general are annoying me. Even my teenager. Yesterday I just snapped at him I didn’t like him much atm and maybe we should break up! Over cooking dinner and him saying let’s not talk for a bit. I’m peri and waiting for an appointment for HRT

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