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How do you cope at night after your soulmate leaves?

15 replies

TheOpalFox · 09/08/2026 22:03

How do you cope this time of night? Knowing they are your love of your life and probably next to someone else ? 5 days ago my soulmate walked out 🥹

OP posts:
Didimum · 09/08/2026 22:05

You should stick to one thread. Multiple posts won’t be of any help to you. You have received lots of support on your other threads.

WithoutABlush · 09/08/2026 22:07

Didimum · 09/08/2026 22:05

You should stick to one thread. Multiple posts won’t be of any help to you. You have received lots of support on your other threads.

This. Also, other people will be responding without all the context in your other posts.

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 09/08/2026 22:09

I’m going to suggest that he’s not your soulmate if he’s in bed with someone else.

BettyJoanPerske · 09/08/2026 22:17

Kindly, you need to stop spamming with constant threads. You appear to be spiralling.

Sparrowsandbudgies · 09/08/2026 22:26

5 days? It’s normal to be upset but you have to try and keep your mind on other things.

CordwainerBird · 09/08/2026 22:28

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 09/08/2026 22:09

I’m going to suggest that he’s not your soulmate if he’s in bed with someone else.

Yeah, this. Best not to think of soulmates but more along the lines of: is this making me happy? Doesn’t seem like it is.

Mumlaplomb · 09/08/2026 22:29

He’s not your soulmate OP. You need to try and do things that make you happy for yourself. See a GP if it becomes too much.

Pedant61 · 09/08/2026 22:33

OP, there is no such thing as a "soulmate". Don't let soppy books and films alter your view of reality.

JoWilkinsonsno1fan · 09/08/2026 22:34

See the GP tomorrow, focus on you and the kids. Distract yourself- do you work?

Of course this is painful but stick to one thread - you have good advice on the one posted earlier.

Wolfiefan · 09/08/2026 22:36

He is not your soulmate. Stop deluding yourself. Focus on your son and a better future for you.

ChickenBananaBanana · 09/08/2026 22:43

What answer are you looking for on these multiple new threads op???

YoQuieroVino · 09/08/2026 22:48

I haven’t read your other threads, but if he’s in bed with someone else after 5 days then he’s not your ‘soul mate’, even if such a thing existed.

MurunBuchstansangursCousinRossiter · 09/08/2026 22:49

Are you still going on?? Stop starting bloody threads 🙄

DewDropsAndCobWebs · 09/08/2026 22:52

He's not your soul mate
I'm sorry you re hurting, but he is not the one for you, so fucus on looking after yourself and don't give him anymore of your time, thoughts or energy.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 09/08/2026 22:55

5 days ago my soulmate walked out

He didn’t live with you so it’s more ‘he went home’ and this is your tenth thread about him.

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